“This Ain’t a Love Song” is a soulful and emotional rock ballad by Bon Jovi, released in May 1995 as the lead single from their sixth studio album These Days. The song stands out for its heartfelt lyrics, powerful vocals, and bluesy rock influence, making it one of the band’s most poignant ballads.
This Ain’t a Love Song is about heartbreak and regret, with the narrator reflecting on a lost relationship, conveying deep sorrow, longing, and the pain of accepting the end of a love affair. Unlike many of Bon Jovi’s previous love songs, this one has a darker, more introspective tone.
The track blends rock with blues and gospel influences, featuring soulful guitar work, rich backing vocals, and an emotionally charged chorus. Jon Bon Jovi’s raw and passionate vocal delivery enhances the song’s aching sincerity, making it one of the band’s most powerful vocal performances.
The song was a moderate commercial success, reaching No. 14 on the Billboard Hot 100 and performing well internationally, hitting No. 6 in the UK and No. 2 in Canada. While it wasn’t as big as some of Bon Jovi’s earlier ballads, it became a fan favorite for its deep emotional resonance.