“So Hard” is a song by British synth-pop duo Pet Shop Boys, released in 1990 as the lead single from their fourth studio album, Behaviour. Written by band members Neil Tennant and Chris Lowe, the song combines catchy pop melodies with a darker lyrical theme.
Musically, “So Hard” features the signature electronic sound of Pet Shop Boys, with driving beats, lush synthesizers, and a sophisticated pop production typical of the early 1990s. Neil Tennant’s smooth, emotive vocals complement the song’s polished arrangement.
Lyrically, “So Hard” deals with the struggles of a complicated relationship. The song explores themes of infidelity, trust, and emotional conflict, with the narrator describing how difficult it is to maintain a relationship when both partners are dishonest with each other.
“So Hard” was a commercial success, reaching No. 4 on the UK Singles Chart and charting in several other countries. The song’s edgy lyrics and catchy sound made it a standout track from the Behaviour album.
Though not as iconic as some of their earlier hits like “West End Girls” or “It’s a Sin,” “So Hard” remains a significant part of Pet Shop Boys’ catalog and showcases their ability to blend pop music with deeper, more introspective themes.