“Everybody Hurts” is a song by R.E.M., released in April 1993 with “Mandolin Strum” on the B-side as the fourth single from their album Automatic for the People (1992). It is one of the band’s most emotional and universally resonant songs, known for its powerful message of hope and comfort for those going through difficult times.
Lyrically, the song delivers a simple yet deeply moving message, urging people not to give up when they are struggling. The repetitive, reassuring chorus—”Hold on”—reinforces the idea that pain is temporary and shared by everyone. The song was deliberately written in a straightforward way so that it could be easily understood by people in distress.
“Everybody Hurts” is a slow, orchestral ballad featuring a hauntingly beautiful string arrangement, a steady drumbeat, and Michael Stipe’s tender, heartfelt vocals. Unlike many R.E.M. songs, it has very few cryptic lyrics, making it one of their most direct and accessible tracks.
The music video, directed by Jake Scott, is equally poignant. It depicts a traffic jam where people are lost in their own silent struggles, with their thoughts appearing as subtitles. Eventually, the drivers and passengers leave their cars, symbolizing unity and collective endurance.
The song was a commercial success, reaching No. 7 in the UK and No. 29 on the US Billboard Hot 100. More importantly, it has remained a cultural and emotional touchstone, frequently used in films, TV shows, and charity campaigns to provide comfort in times of loss or crisis.